Do you ever feel like your choices, actions indeed your life are completely tied to what is expected of you by others around you i.e. your partner, family members, friends, colleagues etc.? Well if so then you may be experiencing a state of emotional dependency that is crippling you and your ability to confidently and fully express yourself authentically. If you want to be and feel free then read this.
Emotional dependence is associated with feelings of low self confidence, low self esteem, low self worth, feelings of self doubt, fears of being rejected, fears of being alone, fears of not being loved or appreciated, feelings of insecurity and neediness, a tendency to engage self sabotaging passive or passive aggressive behaviors with others, feeling ostracized by others, being and feeling unattractive and shunned and so on. This leads to an inability to express and live authentically. In other words one feels like a fraud.
An entirely new way of understanding the causes of emotional dependence has recently come into being.
Emotional dependence is rooted and anchored in deep feelings of deficiency. Specifically the deficiency has to do with what I call the person's Life Force Energy. Some refer to this as "spirit", "soul" or "essence".
The Life Force Energy is associated with feelings of wholeness, completeness, OK'ness, self confidence, inner knowing, inner emotional strength, self esteem, courage, security, love, inner peace and calm, joyfulness, resilience, health, and much more.
This energy is present in varying degrees in each individual and is affected by the number and quality of the sum total of all the stored memories of negative experiences they have had throughout their lives to date.
It is readily evident if you focus on one of your negative memories how it makes you feel. You'll likely notice that it depletes your inner emotional strength and self confidence. Well it then won't surprise you that it is doing this to you even when you're not actively thinking about it. The symptom of this depletion is reflected in your inability to confidently be who you want to be and instead leaves you cowering to the needs and wishes of others to get what you feel deficient in i.e. "love" or "appreciation".
You see those memories actually make you feel deficient, compromised and hence emotionally dependent.
In order to rectify this one must out of necessity address these memories directly. A new and powerful process called the Mind Resonance Process (MRP) that has undergone scientific case study has proven to be able to rapidly and permanently erase or release such memories from the mind/body thereby restoring one to a feeling of wholeness, inner emotional strength, self confidence and hence to help individuals reclaim mastery and control over their lives. Some have described it as the door to freedom to be authentically themselves.
To learn more about MRP or to experience a free telephone MRP consultation kindly visit the web link below.
Nick Arrizza MD, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is an International Life, Executive, Organizational Tele-Coach, Author, Keynote Speaker, Trainer and Facilitator who lives in Toronto, Canada. He is also on Faculty at Akamai University in Hawaii. He is the CEO and Founder of Arrizza Performance Coaching Inc. and the developer of the Mind Resonance Process (MRP) that powerfully and permanently erases negative memories.
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